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Ollie the Collie

Well what can I say about Ollie?!
He really is quite a character!

After losing Moss, our first Border Collie, we were devastated. 
We had decided that we didn't want another dog. Having Jake, our other dog, was enough. Besides we could never replace Moss. (You can also read about Moss and Jake on this blog and of course our cat, Suzy)......and now our latest addition, Kaya!
But Jake grieved as much as we did...he lost his usual smiling face and would just sit around looking sad, so after some debate, we decided to get another brother for him...and yes, it HAD to be a Border Collie!

After phoning round several animal rescue centres only to be told that there were no Border Collies available for re-homing, we started to trawl the internet.
We saw a photograph of a tiny, gorgeous, fluffy, tri-coloured, most adorable looking Border Collie puppy up for sale! Like a little ball of fur with eyes and ears! 
And we immediately thought...
 "He's the one! We must have him!"

On arriving at the house we were greeted by a mother Border Collie and 2 of her puppies...a pretty female called Dorca, who the owner had decided to keep, and an odd looking scrawny thing, with a very long face, long gangly legs, short fur and an extremely long thin black tail, which was that far under his legs that it almost touched his chin!

THIS WAS NOT THE CUTE LITTLE FUR BALL WE HAD SEEN IN THE PICTURE!!

We were told by his owner that he had never been socialised, had lived outside and that he had never even stroked him, in fear of bonding with him! (Stupid man!) So at almost 5 months old this poor little pup hadn't had any human contact....huge, huge, HUGE mistake! (Which we were to find out to our cost in the coming months) Fido, as he was then called, was the last of a litter of 5 that were up for re-homing.
The guy told us he had always known that he would keep one of the female pups, so of course Dorca was friendly as she had been stroked and loved.
He said a couple of people had already been to see this funny looking male pup, but had decided that he wasn't the dog for them.....I'm guessing that this was because, not only was he NOT the puppy advertised online, but he also ticked every box in the list of "Reasons why NOT to choose this particular puppy"

Whilst chatting with the guy, who was rather odd to say the least, this scrawny looking creature hid from us trembling. He peed every time we looked at him...
What a pitiful animal he was....
So yes! We brought him home with us and changed his name to Ollie. 
(There was no possible way we could leave him there!)
And even though, unlike all our other dogs, he wasn't a typical 'Rescue' dog....we really did feel like we were rescuing him!

And so began a life of chaos!!

Looking back I have no idea how we managed!
I lost count of the number of times we held our head in our hands saying.....
 "What on earth have we gotten ourselves into?"
He completely destroyed our home! He chewed through the walls, right through to the bricks, he chewed the banister rail from top to bottom, went through countless cushions, a very expensive rug, 7 pairs of shoes, a remote control, my battery charger for my laptop and my phone and smashed and totally destroyed my brand new lap top!
He would steal food from the kitchen worktops, eat the contents of the cat's litter tray like it was the tastiest treat ever and...well! You get the picture!
House training him was a nightmare!...and so the list goes on...and on....
He was petrified of visitors...in fact he was petrified of everything!
He suffered Separation anxiety and had phobias of just about everything!
He would completely go to pieces every time I left the house and go into 'destruction mode' 
We started off not leaving him for any longer than an hour and then slowly built it up to 4 hours, even now we won't leave either of our dogs home alone for longer than 4 hours.
I would dread coming home and seeing what he had destroyed this time!!

We did try crate training him, for our home's safety, as well as his! But he broke free time after time! He was perfectly happy in there whilst we were home with him and would go in there himself to play and sleep...But it seemed he just didn't like being left alone in an empty house in there. We even tried padlocks but he still broke free and cut his poor little nose quite badly in the process, so we gave up on that.
To this day he is still a bit of an escape artist. You can't shut him in or out of a room because he jumps up, pulls the handle down and opens the door. We have to make sure that we always lock our front door, because he went through a phase of letting himself and our other dog, Jake, out whenever he pleased! Plus if anybody rang our doorbell they would get the fright of their life when the door came flying open and they were greeted by 2 dogs barking their heads off!

Initially, whilst he bonded with us immediately, he would cower in the corner hiding, shaking and peeing every time we had a visitor Then once we built his confidence up he would charge, growling and snapping, at any strangers that we came across, either in our home or out on walks.
'Fear aggression' was now added to his list of emotional problems! 
And so 6 months of  Intensive Confidence building, Socialising and muzzle training began....

I'm a great believer in positive reinforcement training...ie ignore the bad behaviour and praise the good....Trust me! This wasn't always easy! Many of his antics were very difficult to ignore!! But I'm pretty sure he picked up on our disappointment through our body language alone....It was very difficult not to sigh after walking in the house and finding bits of furniture or pieces of brick chewed up and spread around the house lol.
It wasn't just the bad behaviour we ignored, if we returned home or got up in the morning to find he had chewed something then we ignored HIM too, we ignored those big brown eyes, little wet nose and waggy tail. 
And oh! how he hated being ignored!!
Good behaviour, obviously, resulted in lots of praise, cuddles and treats!! Which, of course, he loved! Even through the most difficult times, the one thing that Ollie always wanted to do was to please us and make us happy.
Eventually it seemed to 'click' with him that when he was ignored it was always following behaviour that we found unacceptable and when he was good, we were happy and he got treats and extra attention.

And now, several nervous breakdowns later (on our part!), HEAPS of love and even more patience!  He has grown into a marvelous family member. His fur has grown, he now has a splendid tail! And is now quite handsome.
He is intelligent, incredibly well behaved, extremely loving and loyal and every day he does something that makes me smile. He is my baby.

He still has a few issues, is still a nervous dog, but is much happier around strangers now and no longer needs to be muzzled....he will go up to them wagging his tail and sniff them, but won't allow them to stroke him.....No growling though, he just backs away.

We are getting there!! And are very proud (and grateful!) for what we have achieved with him so far. He still gets a few things wrong....like peeing on the cat for instance, because she hisses at him every time he looks at her! (We are very fortunate to have a cat that likes being bathed! lol)

24th Decamber 2013 - Update..
Just back from the Vets, took Ollie for his booster jab. I was really proud of him...he greeted everyone that came in and wagged his tail, no growling or snapping at everyone! He saw a Vet, that was also an animal behaviourist, that he had never seen before and the first thing she said to him was "What a lovely sociable dog you are" Which really made me smile. When she read his records she said that we should be really proud of what we have achieved, because most people would have just given up on him and had him put to sleep. 
The previous animal behaviourist I had spoken to several months earlier had said that he needed either 6 months of regular intensive training at £90 a session (which we just couldn't afford!) or should be put to sleep, she said there was no way we would be able to get the aggression out of him on our own and that his behaviour would only get worse.
Don't you just love proving people wrong!


OLLIE'S FIRST DAY WITH US



NOT EVEN MY UNDERWEAR WAS SAFE!



 AND OLLIE NOW!









I Love My Grandson



MY GRANDSON
Oscar 
Born August 13th 2017







Meet my dogs :)


A video slideshow of my 2 amazing dogs!
Ollie, the Border Collie and Kaya the Utonagon.

MY Ollie Collie


Ollie the Collie - He's absolutely bonkers, he still has far too many anxiety problems, BUT he is intelligent, funny, loyal, loveable, a BIG baby, cuddly, agile, smiley, obedient, cheeky, beautiful and he's MINE! That just about sums him up!

If you have had a dog....

If you have or have had a dog who has made
you laugh, brightened your life and every day
silently accepted your tears without judgement...
Snuggled with you, forgiven your faults and
loved you unconditionally - SHARE THIS POST.

If you have had a dog...

If you have or have had a dog who has made
you laugh, brightened your life and every day
silently accepted your tears without judgement...
Snuggled with you, forgiven your faults and
loved you unconditionally - SHARE THIS POST.

Two dogs, one caravan and a beach! Ollie and Kaya

 We have just returned from our first camping trip of many this year with our 2 dogs. 
My Border Collie, Ollie and my Northern Inuit, Kaya.
I thought I would share a few photographs of them with you. 















A Time to Remember


A Time to Remember

They come into our lives for such a short time
A time we wouldn't trade not even for a dime
Then before you know it the years have flown by
And then all of the sudden we're saying good-bye

It wasn't that long ago we said our good-byes
We held on to you tight as you closed your eyes
Your spirit has flown home on the wings of a dove
Into God's loving arm's; in heaven above

Over the days we've shed many tears
But the memories we have will live on for years
We feel your presence and we know that your near
You're keeping us safe and calming our fear

We think about memories from years past
When you were young and strong and ran so fast
We remember all the great times that we all had
How you always made us happy never made us mad

They were the best and happiest years we had
We'll always look back on them and never be sad
We look forward to the time we'll be together again
And we thank the Lord for such a great friend

Now you run and play up in Heaven above
Cradled in God's arms covered with his love
Playing by the Bridge waiting for the day
We come down thru the meadow to the bridge to stay

The love that you showed us we'll never forget
Because to us you're one very special pet
You're like a star in the dark of night
Always watching over us with the Lord's light

So now we take time to remember our best friend
Who will always be with us even to the end
We'll always remember you the way you were
One big lovable huggable pile of fur

-John Quealy

Remembering Moss and Jake

KAYA - Northern Inuit







Yesterday we added a new addition to our family.
We got Kaya from the RSPCA.
She is a Northern Inuit, which is basically a combination of 3 different breeds...The Siberian Husky, the Malamute and the German Shepherd.
She is very similar to Jake, the dog we recently laid to rest, but he was a Utonagon...same 3 breeds mixed together, so basically the same dog, but with a different name.....confusing? Very!!
She is also very similar to the British Timber dog and the Tamaskan...
They all come under the category as 'Wolf dogs' for obvious reasons.
Kaya was listed as a Northern Inuit by the RSPCA so I'm going to go with that! 
To be honest it's all rather vague, but I will do my best to explain it to you...

I'll give you a bit of the history, but trust me, it is really confusing. This is what I have uncovered in my research.

It all started with a woman called Edwina Harrison. She had her own vision of a type of dog she wanted to create. She had no intention of creating a breed, just one woman trying to make a dog that fit HER idea of the perfect dog. She wanted the dog to look like a wolf but be easy to train and to be great with families. She imported some husky/type dogs from the US and other parts of Europe to be bred with her already developing stock of malamutes, german shepherds, and huskies mixes. The original lines are not known, and Eddie is no longer alive to be able to clarify just what happened in the beginning. It was suggested that she also imported a Wolf dog from Canada, but this has never been confirmed.

After she had already begun this process, she started to have help caring for her dogs, and of course, some puppy buyers. These other people saw how well this breed was taking off and set to it to actually make it a breed. At first they called them Wolf Hybrids, but later was renamed the Northern Inuit dog. It is still unknown  if there is actually any wolf in them. Some say there was a high percentage of wolf, others say low, and others yet say that there is none at all. 
A few years into the creation of the new breed, some of the founding breeders started to have disagreements in how the breed was progressing. Some thought the look wasn't the way it should be, some disagreed with others breeding practices, and others thought that they needed to continue adding in new lines.
(this is where it gets confusing)
So a number of them left and started to breed their own dog, the Utonagon...basically the same dog, just a different name.

The 'Utonagan group' had its own bit of trouble with unethical breeders and the mixing in of "bad lines".  
Unfortunately, during all this confusion, some really bad health issues started to pop up, including epilepsy in a few different lines and so there was another split....

Following the split of Utonagans, one woman that split off was Ms Lynn Sharkey. She took her Utonagans and moved away and started her own mix of breeds...these became the Tamaskans. Not much is really known about this. The breed never took off in the UK because of the health concerns. Some say that she was the one to introduce the epilepsy lines into Utonagans. I do not know for sure. Nor do I know if she used any of the Utonagan lines with epilepsy to begin the Tamaskan breed.

However, I do know that Tamaskans in the states are doing really well.

So back to the Northern Inuits. During the same time as all the Utonagan politics were happening, the ones that remained with 'Northern Inuits' began having their own issues. Mainly, they were fighting about whether to add in new lines and also some of the members just flat out were not getting along. So the Northern Inuit Society had yet another two splits over the years, one became The Inuit Dog Association, and the other was the British Inuit club
(you still with me?? lol)

The woman who founded The Inuit Dog Association ended up getting kicked out of the club due to some really bad practices.

Just to make things even more confusing....More recently the British Timber dog Society has been formed. The BTD is  a cross between the Utonagon and Northern Inuit. A little Czech Wolf dog and a little Sarloos were used initially. The BTD claim to have used the best health and temperament checked lines to get where you find the breed today.

Jake laid to rest January 31st 2014


You came to us a bag of bones, 
your body badly beaten,
When we gave you food, 
it was like you had never eaten!
You grew in size, a gentle giant, 
no better friend than you!
When I was sad you were by my side, 
it's like you always knew!
When out on walks, you stayed so close,
 you became a part of me..
The love you gave shone in your eyes, 
it was there for all to see!
You loved to have your belly tickled 
and would roll over on your back,
Companionship and loyalty, 
you certainly didn't lack!
Your time with us was cut too short, 
We had to let you go.
I just wish you'de stayed for longer,
My Jake I miss you so.

The outside world

To the outside world we all grow old....but not to brothers and sisters :)

Advice

I'm great at giving out advice...just not very good at taking it

The dog walk

One thing Ollie (the Border Collie) has yet to master is to not pull on the lead! He is surprisingly strong for such a skinny dog! Jake (The Utonagon) is brilliant, in fact he walks that close by my side whether he is on a lead or not that he often trips me up!
Dog walking in our family consists mainly of throwing a stick for Ollie a thousand times, which he then brings back to us and stares at it until we throw it again (Yes, it can be rather tedious!)...to be honest I think he may well be a little bit OCD about sticks! Whilst Jake happily ambles along at the side of us smiling.


So this day started off no differently than any other day...Ollie dragged me all the way to the dog walking area, almost dislocating my shoulder, until it was safe to let him off his lead! (whilst he is well behaved off his lead, there is always the chance that he will see a squirrel or a cat on the other side of the road and take off chasing it before we have chance to call him back!)

I let him off his lead and he was off like a rocket, running backwards and forwards, running circles round trees, hiding in the bushes and then jumping out on me, chasing his stick...he's great to watch, even though the dogs go on this walk several times a day every day, Ollie always manages to make it his own! It's like every day is a new adventure....Oh! to be young and stupid again and have all that enthusiasm for the simplest of things!


There's a large playing field at the end of the walk, I think it was originally intended for children to play football on, but they prefer to do that outside my house...it seems kicking the ball at my car,  or into our garden, risking getting run over by passing traffic and just being generally annoying is much more enjoyable for them! We always stop at this field before setting off for home...Stick throwing of course! Jake usually lies down at this point, although every now and again he gets a sudden spurt of energy and races Ollie to the stick, if he gets there first it's game over though, because he refuses to give it back!

Today's stop off at the playing field was a bit more eventful than usual. A young lady joined us with a small black dog. She was stood chatting to me whilst I went through the relentless task of throwing Ollie's stick until my arm ached that much I was sure it was about to drop off!
Jake was lying on the wet grass in-between the 2 of us, smiling like he always does.

Quite a pleasant conversation took place between the 2 of us....until I threw the stick for Ollie for the millionth time, he did his usual bizarre ritual of fetching it and then running circles around me before  dropping  it....However I think he was a little over enthusiastic with his herding instincts today...he decided to give me a sharp nip at the back of the leg as he ran around me, right in the bend of my knee! My knee gave way and I fell forward..the young lady tried to stop my fall, but instead I took her with me...So there we both were huddled up in a heap, on top of Jake in the mud, not knowing whether to laugh or cry!
The young lady's dog started barking and jumping all over us, clearly under the misconception that this was some fabulous new game we had invented! Jake looked totally bewildered and squashed and Ollie just stood there staring at his stick and wondering why I wasn't throwing it for him!!

We did laugh afterwards and I returned home feeling battered and bruised and completely covered in mud!

I have never seen that young lady since that day....I wonder if she has chosen another route to walk her dog now, just in case she meets me again?!


Ladies Afternoon

This has got to be one of the most embarrassing (and funny) moments, of my life!

I had been invited to a 'Ladies afternoon' at my nephew's home, by his girlfriend. I wasn't entirely sure what this entailed, but was lead to believe it to be a very civilized afternoon for ladies only with tea and cake. My nephew's girlfriend is a marvelous baker, so the thought of spending an afternoon eating her homemade cupcakes was enough for me to accept the invitation.

However I was feeling a little bit anxious...I mean, a lady?! me??!!
I really wasn't sure what to expect. I decided that instead of wearing my usual jeans and comfy top I would at least make an attempt to look like a 'lady'. I took extra time on my makeup and hair and I wore a dress...Yes!! a dress!

As I arrived at the house feeling ever so feminine and ladylike I knocked on the door....my niece answered and smiled at me...She stepped back to admire my appearance before letting me in. 
I could see she was impressed!! 
The time I had taken on my appearance was worth it! 
I was going to fit in amongst all the other 'ladies' just fine. 
She looked me up and down, but seemed to pause as she got to my feet....................and then gasped in horror!!! 
She then burst into laughter...NEVER before have I seen or heard my niece laugh so much and so loudly!!!

I looked down at my feet only to find that my knickers had fallen down and were resting precariously around my ankles!!!! 
Talk about making an entrance!!!!!

The ladies afternoon turned out to be lovely...yummy cakes and girly chats and I had a thoroughly enjoyable time, regardless of the fact that I wasn't wearing any knickers! To pull them back up would have been even more embarrassing because after my niece's sudden outburst of laughter quite a crowd had gathered in the hallway, so I just quickly stepped out of them and shoved them in my pocket!!








Me and my family :)

All of us
My beautiful daughters
The animals!

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Fancy dress!

So I'm not sure what it is about this last couple of months, but the last couple of parties we have been invited to have been fancy dress!
Doesn't anyone have normal parties anymore?!

The first one, I was told just a few days before, was a "1980's fancy dress"
My first thoughts were "Oh no! I don't wanna go!"
But then the more I thought about it, the more excited I got about it!
So we all set about deciding what to wear.
Of course I had to be a rocker and Paul decided to be a Punk rocker. Sarah was a Rock chick and Rachael...well she was sort of a 1980's Barbie doll! (not sure if that was her intention, but that's what she looked like to me!)

So on the day of the party we all spent ages getting ready, wigs, makeup, lots of laughter..the works!
My outfit didn't exactly go to plan...I sorta looked like some kind of hideous throw back...the kind of middle aged woman you find hanging around seedy nightclubs in Manchester...She was probably quite a party animal in her time. Still living in the past...totally oblivious that time had more than caught up with her. The kind of woman you wouldn't want to cross!!...The only thing that was missing was skintight leather pants. thigh length boots and arms covered in tattoos. I went for denim...denim was safer and less hideous on a woman of my generous proportions!

Paul looked brilliant!! Sporting appropriate Punk rock clothes, safety pins and a magnificent Mohican wig! Of course the girls both looked beautiful!! Sarah a steamingly sexy Rock chick in PVC and animal print and Rachael a cute and pretty little doll dressed in a cute little Care bears skirt.

So off we set, all ready for action!
We arrived at the house, parked up outside the house and saw several other people arriving and the host of the party stood at the front door.....but wait!!
Was this a set up?! What's going on?!

WE WERE THE ONLY PEOPLE IN FANCY DRESS!!
This was the point that we find out that it was actually a 1980's "Theme night!"

Paul wasn't impressed at all!! He started the car up, muttering something unrepeatable under his breath and set off for home!!
But me and the girls weren't about to let all that effort go to waste!
Plus this was my niece's birthday party...we didn't want to miss it whatever the cost! 

So Paul quite literally dumped us at the road side and went home.

We crept in, hoping to go un-noticed....which, lets face it wasn't going to happen!
The girls were met with admiration...My 'Look' was met with laughter, shock and horror!
Apparently, according to Rachael...it was the eyebrows...I've never really had eyebrows, or at least not visible ones...they are blonde...oh ok! they are ginger! And I've never quite been able to carry the look off of drawing them on without looking incredibly surprised or angry, so I just allow my fringe to grow a bit longer than normal and cover up my browless area! However with a black wig, it seemed only right that I drew on black eyebrows!

As the night went on and after everyone had got over the shock and amusement of seeing me...a few glasses of wine later......Other people turned up in fancy dress and I felt quite normal!

And we had a thoroughly enjoyable time! Nobody can say we didn't make an effort and I did provide a bit of amusement for everyone! I even got invited on a night out by a woman I barely know...under the condition that I dressed exactly the same way I was dressed that night....I wasn't quite sure how to take that! LOL

PAUL MISSED A BLOODY GOOD PARTY!! 




 


The second party was a Roman theme, so not quite as extreme...no wigs or over the top make up required. But just as much fun!!
Paul looked rather dashing as Julius Caesar and I went as..well just a Roman person really!
The other option was a Greek Goddess....gone are the days that I can carry off that look!!
This was a surprise 50th birthday party for our friend Julie....although she did kind of guess something was going on when she was handed a Roman Empress outfit an hour before the party!
Another excellent night out!!













Old Fuddy Duddys

Old Fuddy Duddys

If 5 years ago, forget that! 2 years ago, someone had suggested to me that I bought a caravan I would have laughed in their face!! I couldn't imagine anything worse than being sat in a field in the middle of nowhere in a tin box!!
No, thank you very much...that wasn't what I would call a holiday!
After all caravans were for old fuddy duddys!
Boring people...Not a thrill seeker like me!

We always had a holiday abroad, most years we would have 2, some years we even had 3.
Until the time came that we no longer found it easy to get anyone to look after the 2 dogs.
When the girls were at home it was easy, but now that they both have full time jobs, animals and homes of their own to care for, our options were running out....
We couldn't possibly kennel them (the dogs that is, not the girls!)...they had been through enough before they came to us to risk making them feel abandoned.

 So I suggested, on a whim, that we take the dogs with us.....
"I know I said, why don't we buy a caravan?"
Were these words REALLY coming out of MY mouth?!

So that's just what we did.....We bought the cheapest, smallest (and probably the oldest) caravan on the planet and I fell in love!! We decorated her on the inside and out...We even added our names to the front of her..I know, I know, how sad can you get?!!!
We made matching cushions and curtains....put pictures up here and there, a small vase of flowers...a real home from home.

And you know what? I LOVE our little van.
I have called her Maude....Not sure why, it just kinda suited her!
She sits on our driveway and it's great! If the weather's looking good and we have nothing else planned for the weekend off we go!
You don't even have to pack a suitcase! You just transfer your clothes from one wardrobe to another...if you want to take 16 jumpers and 22 pairs of shoes with you...you can!! No need to worry about stupid airport regulations.....You just throw it all in the van!
We have everything we need in there...a cooker, fridge, heating, running water...and the best bit of all a TOILET!!
Maude is like our own little haven of togetherness and  happiness...Ok, ok getting a bit carried away there! But you get the picture! :)

Maude has brought Paul and I closer together, given us another joint interest...time to ourselves, away from it all!  Just me, Paul and the dogs!

I can't even begin to describe the feeling of tranquility and peace. All that green around us, long walks in the countryside, trips to the beach....Soooo relaxing.
What more can you ask for?!

And of course with the beautiful summer we have had in England this year, well, this Summer has just been perfect!

By the end of this year we will have had about a dozen trips away in her, sometimes for a week or 2, other times just a long weekend.
We will probably get another year out of Maude before she starts falling apart and then our plan is to get a newer updated version...one with the only thing that is missing from her..a shower!

This year has been the first year in 21 years that I haven't been abroad....and you know what? I haven't missed it one bit!

So that's it...it's official, I am now a fully signed up member of the Fuddy Duddy club!

My only regret....WHY DIDN'T WE DO THIS YEARS AGO?!

Never judge other people until you have walked a mile in their shoes!
Never criticise someone for doing something they love, especially if you have never tried it for yourself!

DON'T COME A KNOCKIN' IF THE CARAVAN'S A ROCKIN'!

 

Jake - My cuddly teddybear

After having Moss, our first Border Collie for a few years, we decided to get him a companion.

So off we trotted to the Rescue centre to get another Border Collie, as we had now fallen in love with this breed.
The rescue centre insisted we took Moss with us to meet our new family member to ensure that they got on well together.
After introducing him to a couple of fellow Border Collies, that he just didn't get along with, we were about to give up when we saw this very unusual looking dog, or was it a wolf?!....A dog cowering in his cage, with one of those lampshade things on his head, looking all pitiful and thin!
He got along with Moss just fine.

We were told he had been found wondering the streets after being badly beaten and kicked by his previous owner...and that was enough for us to rescue him and take him home with us.

After doing some research I discovered that he was a relatively new breed of dog called a Utonagan (Which means "Spirit of the wolf") A domestic dog bred to look like a Canadian timber wolf, using 3 other breeds of dog, the German Shepherd, the Siberian Husky and the Malamute....I even managed to trace his breeder, who lives in Blackpool.

Well, to say he had 'issues' would be an understatement!
He had never been house trained...his favourite place to cock his leg was the television!
He pooped anywhere he pleased...the most memorable place was in my daughters bed! (and yes she discovered this as she snuggled down under her covers and felt something mushy on her feet!)
He chewed and tore up anything he found...clothes were a firm favourite!
He was very nervous of strangers, men in particular and would growl and snarl at them.

But seven years on and bucketfulls of love, he is now the best behaved dog in the world! 
He just sort of fits in.
He adores squeaky toys and we buy him one every Saturday. 
As soon as we walk through the door from our weekly shop he will poke his nose in all the shopping bags until he finds his toy, squeaks it madly for 10 minutes, before removing the Squeaky bit with his teeth! 

He's a very smiley dog and the only time he lost his smile was when we lost his brother, Moss, he grieved as much as we did and looked so sad and became withdrawn, so even though we had made a firm decision NOT to get another dog, we ended up getting him a new brother, a Border Collie puppy called Ollie. His smile returned almost immediately!

This year we have bought a caravan, since our daughters grew up and left home, it's impossible to find anyone to look after the dogs while we are away and we won't kennel them! So we decided we would take them on holiday with us! Jake LOVES the caravan!
He will even jump in there for a sleep if ever the door is left open whilst it's still on our driveway at home!  He gets sooo excited as soon as he sees us putting our clothes and stuff in there ready to leave for a trip...he paces up and down the house excitedly until it is finally time for him to jump in the car! (Sometimes this can go on for 2 hours or more lol)
When we arrive at our destination he is sooo happy! He just loves all the long walks, the beach and just spending time with us there.

He has a wonderful character and is so gentle and loving.....My best friend, my protector!
He has the most heart melting brown eyes you ever saw!
He is always by my side or lying at my feet.
He adores children and is so tolerant towards them. His initial reaction to seeing a child, of any age, is rolling over on his back to have his tummy tickled and he will allow them to crawl all over him. He loves cuddles! He's like a big teddy bear.


Jake's first day with us - Skinny and frightened.


He has a weight issue at the moment, the Vet has told us he is obese! A battle we are fighting (and failing) with him. He gets lots of exercise but eats everything in sight! I was going to say that he loves 'his' food...but that wouldn't be strictly accurate...he loves 'EVERYBODY'S' food!



JAKE WITH HIS BIG BROTHER MOSS


AND WITH HIS NEW BABY BROTHER OLLIE




Update
Sadly, on the 31st January 2014, we laid Jake to rest.
He developed a slight cough, nothing too worrying we thought. After a week it didn't seem to be getting any better, so we took him to the Vet, just to be on the safe side. She said it was nothing to worry about, he probably had a virus and gave him some Antibiotics. A week later he was no better, so we took him back to the Vets. She gave him another week's worth of Antibiotics. But he seemed to be coughing more than ever, so back to the Vets we went.
She didn't seem unduly concerned, but suggested a chest X-ray for the following week.

The result of the X-ray was a huge shock, not just to us but to the Vet too. She said his lungs were that badly damaged that she had to get 2 other Vets to come and have a look. Neither of them could believe that he had actually walked in there. She said they would have expected a dog with such extensive lung damage to have been carried in.
One of his lungs wasn't working at all, the other one was only functioning 25%. 

She virtually gave up on him there and then, but my husband asked if there was anything at all that we could try. She gave him a very high dosage of Antibiotics, saying it was a long shot, but we could try it if we wished. He got no worse so we asked for another week's worth of medication. 

He started losing weight rapidly and his appetite was very poor. 
For months we had been struggling to get him to lose weight...but not like this...this wasn't what we wanted...We just wanted him to be fat and happy again.
The Antibiotics hadn't worked. 
We pleaded again to the Vet for help.
She said that the only way there would be any possibility of helping him would be to open him up and see what had brought on his Pneumonia, but that as they had almost lost him when they did the Xray, they said the risk of opening him up was far too high.

So we prayed...some days he seemed to pick up a bit and we thought he was getting better, but then he would have a bad day again....eventually his body just gave up on him. 
He was struggling to breath, coughing and vomiting, so we had to make the heart breaking decision to have him put to sleep.
It was so very difficult and an excruciatingly sad time for us.
The last week with him tore my heart into pieces.

He never lost his spirit, he tried his hardest to fight it. He would get excited to go out for a walk, but as the days went by it was taking him longer and longer to recover after any exercise.
He still greeted visitors happily right up until his last day, wagging his tail happily and taking them his toy...

I didn't sleep for the 3 remaining nights of his life. I didn't want him to feel alone. 
I hated seeing him struggling to breathe and night times always seemed worse for him. 
Yet he still managed to greet us with a smile (and yes! he did smile!) and a wagging tail every morning.

He was only 8 years old. It doesn't seem fair. I took it for granted that we had a few more years with him.
It's such a shame that we didn't get the caravan until his last year with us. He spent some of his happiest times away on holiday with us....We thought he was going to spend many more trips away with us....
I feel lost without him and miss him so very much. 
He has left a huge hole in our lives.



This picture was taken a couple of days before we laid him to rest, he had a new ball, even towards the end he still managed to play and carry his ball around in his mouth...In fact on his last day with us, as the Vet and nurse arrived at our house to put him to sleep, he greeted them happily at the door, tail wagging with this ball in his mouth....That was heartbreaking to see.





God saw he was getting tired,
and a cure was not to be.
So He put His arms around him
and whispered,” Come with Me.”
With tearful eyes we watched him
suffer and slowly fade away.
Although we loved him dearly,
we could not make him stay.
A golden heart stopped beating,
playful paws were put to rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us,

He only takes the best